Human memory is something very interesting and unpredictable. We most often tend to forget the good memories while the bad ones continue to influence our decisions. We take many things too personally to be able to be objective.
Haven't you heard yet? There's nothing like objective decision. And will never exist.
We tend to forget that in front of us stand just PEOPLE as well, people with their own unique points of view.
Haven't you understood yet? You very often forget that.
If we could only forget the bad memories... There always will be bad memories. In your point of view. But from another's perspective it could be a good memory or at least not that bad one. Or definitely a memory one can make conclusions from and learn from.
Just imagine. You are in a mountain. Silence, emptiness, noone there. You want to reach the peak by car, but it hasn't worked properly some time ago or your friends have told you that it would fail you in your journey. Yes, sometimes it really stops working properly, but everytime it stops, it starts again.
While you're driving to the peak, you see a person standing by the road who stops you. "There's a car over there which you might prefer to buy", he says. The car looks similar to yours, but you haven't even tested it. You don't know the brand, you know nothing about its capabilities.
"If I change the car, it would probably help me reach the peak without the problems of my current one", you might think.
What's the risk here? You know your car, and you know the risks of driving it. How about the other car? You don't know the current owner, you don't know anything about the car, nothing about the possible risks as well. It might work, but it might also stop somewhere in the middle of nowhere.
What is your choice?
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